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Divergently is the first one-stop platform and community for and by late-diagnosed women with ADHD or autism. Overcome overwhelm and rediscover you.
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Don't do it alone
Being neurodivergent is hard.
Finding out in adulthood is even harder.
Learn and grow alongside other women who are right there with you.
"There is a large cohort of women my age, 68, that seem to get ignored. We were well past navigating elementary school when any recognition of this was done. It was often boys that got the attention. Many of us my age have figured out much on our own to various degrees of success. I’d still appreciate new insights other than medications because this is a lifelong journey."
"Gentle support and community is most what I'm after - it's exhausting trying to figure out who you are mid-life."
"My ADHD is most triggered by anxious events. Would like tools to manage these hurdles so I don’t burn and crash. I never even questioned my hyperfocus until I hit menopause… it has been less manageable since the hormonal change."
Frequently Asked Questions
Learn more about our expertsDivergently is the only comprehensive platform created by neurodivergent women to help late-diagnosed women process their experiences, find tools, and heal in community. We provide access to the resources needed to navigate every stage of your journey, from pursuing a diagnosis to managing menopause. No medical misinformation, stigma, or judgment. Just expert-lead information, vetted recommendations, moderated community, and real stories you won’t hear anywhere else.
Nope! Whether you’re considering a diagnosis, self-diagnosed, or have an official diagnosis, we’re here to support you no matter where you are in your journey. We are not medical providers and do not diagnose or treat any health or mental health conditions.
You can! We know that navigating a diagnosis in adulthood is different. Whether you’ve become a parent yourself, are entering perimenopause or menopause, considering a career change, or simply want help retooling your toolbox, we’ve got you!
Yes! In addition to ADHD and autism, we support women who are highly sensitive (HSP), gifted or neurocomplex, twice-exceptional (2E), have sensory processing disorder, or related/co-morbid conditions like dyslexia and anxiety. If you have another form of neurodivergence, we may be able to help! Please reach out and we'll help you assess whether this is the right space for you.
Safety is our number one priority. The application process helps us ensure each and every member upholds our commitment to being a supportive, open, stigma-free space. We're also growing slowly, so that we can make sure to give each member the support they need to have an incredible experience. We'll be onboarding new members on a first-come, first-served basis. The earlier you apply, the earlier you can join! So apply early!
Articles: Deep dives into topics like parenting, work, relationships, finances and more. Our approach is a blend of actionable tips, real stories, and expert perspectives rooted in science.
Stories: Read or listen to stories from other neurodivergent women to get tips and feel less alone.
Guides: Detailed walkthroughs on how to work with your neurodivergent brain and body instead of trying to change it.
Events & Workshops: Join our experts live to learn in a stress-free, small group setting, or learn at your own pace by watching video recordings.
Recommended Products and Services: Discover our favorite products, brands, and services. We vet and test everything following a rigorous method to discover what’s best and share it with you.
And, so much more! We'll expand our content library, resource database, and programming weekly. Join as a founding member to help shape what Divergently becomes.
Building community and learning how to navigate a new diagnosis takes time. That’s why we ask all members to commit to the membership and community for at least 3 months (ideally a year). If a 3-month minimum commitment doesn’t work for you, you can still access many of our resources for free via our newsletter, blog, and upcoming podcast.
We aim to make Divergently the least prickly place on the internet, but we understand that everybody needs different things to thrive.
If you don’t find the community valuable within the first 14 days of creating your membership, we’ll happily offer a full refund. Refunds will not be provided after the first 14 days of your initial subscription.
You can cancel anytime, and your membership will not renew during the next billing cycle.
We bill you one time at the start of each quarterly subscription period. No ongoing monthly charges or hidden fees. Cancel anytime.
We’re just getting started so our pricing is already as low as it will be. If you’d like help paying for your membership, you can apply for a sponsorship here!
If you sign up now, you’ll be locked into our current pricing until you choose to cancel, even if our prices increase.