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Meet your neurodiversity encyclopedia

75+ workshops and articles in your toolbox for living with neurodiversity.

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A judgment-free community

Highly moderated peer support and a safe space to connect.

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Learn science-backed strategies developed by experts.

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Sign up for free content or apply to become a founding member of our test platform.
Experiencing financial hardship? We have options for you too.

Content-Only Plan
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Unlimited podcast access (coming soon!)
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Founding Member Quarterly
$28/mo
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Ask a therapist resource
Body doubling sessions
Live events & workshops
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Don't do it alone

Being neurodivergent is hard.
Finding out in adulthood is even harder.
Learn and grow alongside other women who are right there with you.

Five stars in a row

"There is a large cohort of women my age, 68, that seem to get ignored. We were well past navigating elementary school when any recognition of this was done. It was often boys that got the attention. Many of us my age have figured out much on our own to various degrees of success. I’d still appreciate new insights other than medications because this is a lifelong journey."

Aimee V.
Five stars in a row

"Gentle support and community is most what I'm after - it's exhausting trying to figure out who you are mid-life."

Victoria S.
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"My ADHD is most triggered by anxious events. Would like tools to manage these hurdles so I don’t burn and crash. I never even questioned my hyperfocus until I hit menopause… it has been less manageable since the hormonal change."

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Frequently Asked Questions

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How is Divergently different from everything else out there?

Divergently is the only comprehensive platform created by neurodivergent women to help late-diagnosed women process their experiences, find tools, and heal in community. We provide access to the resources needed to navigate every stage of your journey, from pursuing a diagnosis to managing menopause. No medical misinformation, stigma, or judgment. Just expert-lead information, vetted recommendations, moderated community, and real stories you won’t hear anywhere else.

Do I need to have a formal diagnosis to join?

Nope! Whether you’re considering a diagnosis, self-diagnosed, or have an official diagnosis, we’re here to support you no matter where you are in your journey. We are not medical providers and do not diagnose or treat any health or mental health conditions.

I was diagnosed as a child, can I still join?

You can! We know that navigating a diagnosis in adulthood is different. Whether you’ve become a parent yourself, are entering perimenopause or menopause, considering a career change, or simply want help retooling your toolbox, we’ve got you!

Is this group only for people with ADHD or autism (ASD)?

Nope! In addition to ADHD and autism, we support women who are highly sensitive (HSP), gifted or neurocomplex, twice-exceptional (2E), have sensory processing disorder, or related/co-morbid conditions like dyslexia, obsessive-compulsive disorder and anxiety, or who are simply experiencing burnout due to the pace of modern life.

Not sure if we're a good fit? Please reach out and we'll help you assess whether or not we can support you. If we can't, we'll do our best to direct you to the right place.

Why do you require an application to join the community?

Safety is our number one priority. The application process helps us ensure each and every member upholds our commitment to being a supportive, open, stigma-free space. We're also growing slowly, so that we can make sure to give each member the support they need to have an incredible experience. We'll be onboarding new members on a first-come, first-serve basis. The earlier you apply, the earlier you can join!

I can’t afford this. Do you offer financial support?

We do! Apply for a scholarship here.

You may also be able to get your membership paid for by your employer, or you can use funds from an FSA or HSA account. Email us for more details on those options.

You can also sign up for our free, content-only plan here.

What types of resources can I find at Divergently?

Articles: Deep dives into topics like parenting, work, relationships, finances and more. Our approach is a blend of actionable tips, real stories, and expert perspectives rooted in science.

Body Doubling Sessions: Get peer support on any task you're having trouble completing. From laundry to work, we're here for you! 

Events & Workshops: Join our experts live to learn in a stress-free, small group setting, or learn at your own pace by watching video recordings. 

Recommended Products and Services: Discover our favorite products, brands, and services. We vet and test everything following a rigorous method to discover what’s best and share it with you. 

And, So Much More! We'll expand our content library, resource database, and programming weekly. Join as a founding member to help shape what Divergently becomes.

Why do you require a three-month commitment?

Building community and learning how to navigate a new diagnosis takes time. That’s why we ask all members to commit to the membership and community for at least 3 months (ideally a year). If a 3-month minimum commitment doesn’t work for you, you can still access many of our resources for free via our newsletter, blog, and upcoming podcast.

What if Divergently isn’t a good fit for me? Can I get a refund?

We aim to make Divergently the least prickly place on the internet, but we understand that everybody has different desires, goals, and support needs.

If you don’t find the community valuable within the first 14 days of creating your membership, we’ll happily offer a full refund. Refunds will not be provided after the first 14 days of your initial subscription.

You can cancel anytime, and your membership will not renew during the next billing cycle.

How does billing work?

We bill you one time at the start of each quarterly subscription period. No hidden fees. Cancel anytime.

Do you offer any discounts?

We’re just getting started, so our pricing is already as low as it will be. If you’d like help paying for your membership, you can apply for a sponsorship here

By signing up now, you’ll be locked into our current pricing for the length of your membership, even if our prices increase.

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